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A PRACTICAL GUIDE TO IMPROVING ALL YOUR RELATIONSHIPS
The Relational Map
ABOUT THE BOOK
In The Relational Map, you will find the help and encouragement you need to:
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understand what causes your conversations to get off course
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overcome the automatic reactions that are damaging your relationships
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repair your relationships before it is too late
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hold onto what you value while under stress
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maintain access to your entire brain when you need it most
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respond in constructive ways even when you are treated unfairly
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make lasting changes to your behavior by developing habits that become automatic
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see the other person’s perspective when it is completely different than your own
Improving your relationship will be worth the effort. Have you ever had a discussion with an important person in your life that seemed to be going well and without warning it turned into an unproductive emotionally charged ordeal that left you feeling criticized, unheard, and completely disconnected? Why is it that two reasonable people who genuinely care about each other can say such hurtful things and refuse to consider the other person's perspective? The same person can be a remarkable source of joy and can break your heart so deeply that it feels like you will never recover. Our lives are much more enjoyable when we are in a connected life-giving relationship with a friend, co-worker, parent, sibling, child, or spouse.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Bob Leinberger has guided thousands of people through significant challenges in their relationships over the last twenty-five years. Each conversation has helped him gain a deeper understanding of what is fueling the negative communication patterns. Allow him to take you on a road trip through the personal conversations of real people just like you. You will be able to see yourself in their engaging stories. With endearing transparency he shares his own journey on the road to misery. Allow him to lead you onto a road that will lead to a satisfying destination. Think of this book as a guidebook to help navigate your interactions with the important people in your life. Bob has a rare ability to bring clarity to why the people you care about act the way they do. He can help you turn around when you get off course and repair the damage you have already done. Allow him to show you the map that will make your relationships better and guide you through the twists and turns of important conversations.
IN THE PRESS
“Bob Leinberger has a deep passion to help others succeed in all of their relationships. The Relational Map is packed full of content to help you achieve high levels of relationship satisfaction. You will be inspired to be more thoughtful and intentional with those who matter most to you."
Ted Cunningham, founding pastor, Woodland Hills Family Church, author, Fun Loving You and Greater Joy TWOgether
“I have read hundreds of leadership, performance management, and relationship books. Even with the best books, I sometimes find it difficult to apply the main principles to real-life situations. Bob Leinberger is a master at taking complex relationship concepts and putting them in understandable language that can be applied to both professional and personal relationships.”
Corey Koskie, former Major League Baseball third baseman, Minnesota Twins, Toronto Blue Jays, and Milwaukee Brewers, elected to the Canadian Baseball Hall of Fame
“Building healthy and fulfilling relationships is hard work, but it's good work. Whether you are navigating the realities of broken, strained, confused, or simply immature relationships, Bob Leinberger’s helpful insights and actionable steps will make a big impact. This practical guide takes us on a journey to cultivate life-giving relationships. Bob reminds us of the fundamentals we've often forgotten or taken for granted. Experiencing the relationships you want will require hard work, but the people you care about are worth it! Bob is a deep well, and the tools he presents have the potential to impact all your relationships!”
Benjamin Woods, Co-Founder and minister at The Brave Way Home
"The Relational Map is a deeply moving, personal, and freshly valuable tool for navigating the difficult world of conflict in relationships. Bob Leinberger has served as a pastor and friend to so many. His own experiences, as well as those he has walked with other people, provide a wealth of insight into the highly complex circumstances that cause us to want to flee or even attack one another. I have learned so much sitting at Bob’s feet, and I highly recommend this book to anyone that wants to improve their relationships.”
"Bob Leinberger offers invaluable insight into relationships from a biblical foundation. I am so thankful for all he has taught us. I truly believe my new marriage is set up for success. Learning these things now will help us avoid common problems and give us tools for effective communication and a marriage that thrives."
Chap Clarke, Executive Director, Institute for Ministry Leadership and author of Hurt 2.0: Inside the world of today’s Teenagers and Sticky Faith
“Bob Leinberger has been my friend and partner in ministry for many years. He understands people and relationships. Often, I find myself in a difficult conversation and begin thinking to myself, “What would Bob say?” I have encouraged him over and over again to share his wisdom and experience with all of us by writing a book. I am so glad he did. One of the phrases I have learned from Bob and use often is “Tell me more.” This response has gotten me through some tough conversations. Let me assure you that what you will find in this book is well worth your time. Thank you, Bob!”
Brook Stensgard, young professional, newly married
“Relationships can be tough to navigate, but this book definitely is not! Bob Leinberger takes his readers on an engaging road trip with valuable tools to repair and sustain relationships. The best part—personal stories from his own journey and those he has helped over the last twenty-five years. Not only does Bob help diagnose the problems, he helps the reader fix them with practical principles that are both easy to understand and apply. I highly recommend this book!”
Dan Johnson, pastor
“I can’t rave enough about this book. I am so excited to see how God uses it to make this world draw closer to Him! I LOVE this book!!! The Relational Map is the most practical book I've ever read. Pastor Bob Leinberger has followed Jesus’ example of telling stories to teach lessons, and he uses them throughout the book to teach how we can put into practice the ways God calls us to treat one another. This book gives tangible examples of how to apply the truths found in scripture so we can exemplify Christ’s love, patience, and grace, especially as we navigate challenging situations and relationships.”
Molly Sanborn—author and speaker for youth, family, and marriage
“Bob is an incredibly personal pre-marriage counselor. His knowledge and experience is vast and he knows how to tailor his pre-marriage sessions to areas that need growth and knowledge. Along with that, Bob is really kind and fun to be around! There are so many things I learned from our sessions that are going to help us be ahead of the game as we prepare for our marriage. Don't miss a chance to hear Bob Leinberger speak or to read his book."
Dan Ostrem, young professional newly married
Cathy Hilary, health care professional
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